Does your team behave like children?

Meetings can often feel like daycare. We gather up our colleagues, get them to sit quietly for a few moments, and try to wrangle some semblance of direction from a group that wants to be anywhere but in this meeting. What’s the solution? Structure!

Just like a five year old, a small dose of structure into your team’s meeting life will do wonders for focus, productivity and general attitude (it won’t help get the grass stains out of their soccer uniforms, but that’s a different email newsletter…).

Here’s a quick five minute challenge for you to add a dose of sanity to the next meeting you’re in charge of running: 

  • Pick the next meeting on your calendar you’re in charge of (could be later today!)

  • For that meeting, answer the following questions with one sentence each:

    • Purpose - What’s the reason we’re gathering?

    • Product - What will this meeting produce (that didn’t exist before we met)?

    • Personal Benefit - Why should you care about being here and participating? How does the meeting product make your (work) life better?

    • Process - How will we structure our conversation (this is your agenda)?

  • Review your answers, and cut/paste them into the calendar invite then hit “update”

A couple things to note:

  • You might struggle to answer these questions for recurring meetings. That’s a good thing! It means the meeting hasn’t been well defined. You have two options: cancel the meeting since it’s not a productive use of time (yay!) or discuss these questions with the meeting participants as an agenda item. It’ll help clarify why you’re spending the time and what everyone considers a “successful” gathering.

  • Ask others in the meeting to answer these questions themselves. You may learn a thing or two about unspoken expectations for your gathering.

  • Remember: Structure is the backbone of creativity. Adding some guardrails helps people stay on track, understand what’s appropriate to discuss and walk away feeling good about the time spent.

Give it a shot and email me back your answers! I’d love to hear what you’re all meeting about :)

Virtual Public Speaking

When presenting on video calls, do you ever think…

  • I don’t know where to look. Do I look at the camera? At my slides? I've been doing this for months and it still feels awkward to me.

  • I have no idea if anyone is paying attention. I feel like my ideas are strong but I don't know how to engage the virtual audience in discussions. Whenever I ask a question all I hear is crickets.

  • I feel nervous even though I know what I'm talking about. I used to present in meetings all the time in person, but now when I'm working from home I don't have the same level of confidence sharing in hybrid meetings.

We have officially launched our “Virtual Public Speaking Skills” Online Class!

This self-directed, online video class is perfect for experienced presenters looking to "level-up" their virtual communication techniques. By the end of the course you'll be confidently preparing for virtual meetings, "dominating the mechanics" of virtual presentation software, engaging with your audience in quality two-way dialogue and wow-ing each and every virtual audience you find yourself in front of!

Learn More: Virtual Public Speaking Class

Quick Reads:

What if offices were the radical invention? - A post from last year that poses the hypothetical question:
”What would work look like if the pandemic happened in reverse?”

Hard Work Isn’t the Point of the Office

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Boundaries

It’s a Thursday afternoon during the dog days of summer - The weather is beautiful and you’re hoping to get out of the office a little early so you can enjoy a summer happy hour with a couple of your work buddies.

Only problem with this scenario is that you look around and remember that your office is your bedroom and your work friends all live hundreds of miles away. Is it still okay to close your laptop at 4:30 and go outside to enjoy a cold beverage?

For years, the idea of setting work/life boundaries was a pretty easy and straightforward task. Commutes, train rides and putting on actual shoes to leave your home were clear mental, physical and emotional indicators that a change in your day was about to occur. These indicators served as reminders that you were transitioning from home life to work life (and back again at the end of the day).

As we look ahead to the fall and prepare for another new phase of hybrid work “normalcy” it’s a really good time to reset our personal work from home boundaries. It’s worth doing a bit of self reflection by examining our work from home boundaries:

  • How do I know when my work day is done?

  • What physical, mental and emotional routines do I go through in the morning to prepare for at-home work? What routines do I have for ending work?

  • Are there any habits I’d like to let go of? Are there new habits I’d like to form?

  • How can I share these boundaries and intentional habits with my team? How do I make it safe for others to share them with me?

Here’s a habit I’ve been doing ever since I started working for myself from home: Every Friday morning, I block off one hour to plan my next week. I look at all my to do lists and projects and block off time on my calendar to accomplish the work the following week.

This “meeting with myself” serves a dual purpose - it’s a reality check on what I can reasonably accomplish in five work days while also creating as a clear mental and emotional boundary for the weekend. I know that when the “Sunday Scaries” show up, I will remind myself that my past self took care of my future self, so come Monday morning I can trust that I’ll hit the ground running.

What’s your favorite “work from home” habit? Reply back to this email and let me know what works for you!

Want more tips on structuring your work from home routines? Check out this video where I share a few different ideas for maintaining rhythm in your at-home work patterns:

Strengthen Your Structure: Rebuild Your Daily Rhythms - Work from Home Wednesdays

Virtual Public Speaking

When presenting on video calls, do you ever think…

  • I don’t know where to look. Do I look at the camera? At my slides? I've been doing this for months and it still feels awkward to me.

  • I have no idea if anyone is paying attention. I feel like my ideas are strong but I don't know how to engage the virtual audience in discussions. Whenever I ask a question all I hear is crickets.

  • I feel nervous even though I know what I'm talking about. I used to present in meetings all the time in person, but now when I'm working from home I don't have the same level of confidence sharing in hybrid meetings.

We have officially launched our “Virtual Public Speaking Skills” Online Class!

This self-directed, online video class is perfect for experienced presenters looking to "level-up" their virtual communication techniques. By the end of the course you'll be confidently preparing for virtual meetings, "dominating the mechanics" of virtual presentation software, engaging with your audience in quality two-way dialogue and wow-ing each and every virtual audience you find yourself in front of!

Learn More: Virtual Public Speaking Class

Quick Reads:

Hybrid Work and Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Initiatives - McKinsey provides recommendations on how to make an organization’s hybrid communication plan work in tandem with DE&I goals.

DE&I and Hybrid Work

What’s the point of a summer internship if you don’t meet anyone? - Another great article from Emma Goldberg (NYT) on hybrid workplace culture from the perspective of summer interns. With so many people working remotely, interns have to get creative to make the most of their networking experience.

Hybrid Internships

Want a Workshop or Coaching for Your Team?

Oak and Reeds offers training on hybrid communication, managing remote teams, interviewer skills, change leadership and more.

All our trainings can be conducted virtually using Zoom or in person.

Interested in scheduling a training for a team? Click the link below to set up some time to chat with Dave Collins about your training and coaching needs:

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Virtual Presentation Skills

Virtual Public Speaking

When presenting on video calls, do you ever think…

  • I don’t know where to look. Do I look at the camera? At my slides? I've been doing this for months and it still feels awkward to me.

  • I have no idea if anyone is paying attention. I feel like my ideas are strong but I don't know how to engage the virtual audience in discussions. Whenever I ask a question all I hear is crickets.

  • I feel nervous even though I know what I'm talking about. I used to present in meetings all the time in person, but now when I'm working from home I don't have the same level of confidence sharing in hybrid meetings. 

If any of these feelings resonated with you…

We have officially launched our “Virtual Public Speaking Skills” Online Class!

This self-directed, online video class is perfect for experienced presenters looking to "level-up" their virtual communication techniques. By the end of the course you'll be confidently preparing for virtual meetings, "dominating the mechanics" of virtual presentation software, engaging with your audience in quality two-way dialogue and wow-ing each and every virtual audience you find yourself in front of!

Learn More: Virtual Public Speaking Class

Quick Reads:

Two recent articles examine the connection between work-related “burnout” and a (really pernicious) trend of office workers not taking time off to recover from illness. Remember: Just because you’re working from home doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to take time off to recover!

“Axios: Sick Days Disappear in the Remote Working World”
“New York Times: How Covid Did Away With the Sick Day”

Want a Workshop or Coaching for Your Team?

Oak and Reeds offers training on hybrid communication, managing remote teams, interviewer skills, change leadership and more.

All our trainings can be conducted virtually using Zoom or in person.

Interested in scheduling a training for a team? Click the link below to set up some time to chat with Dave Collins about your training and coaching needs:

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Planning to meet in person?

Planning to meet in person?

The days are getting longer, the weather is turning warmer, and here at Oak and Reeds the summer means one thing…it’s team off-site season!

If you’re on the fence about bringing together your team for an in-person meeting this summer, ask yourself these questions:

Is there anyone on our team I’ve been working with (virtually) that I’ve never met in person?

Are there any team challenges or projects that would benefit from a half day or full day in-person discussion?

Am I noticing signs of burnout (diminishing patience, less frequent casual “checking-in”, “video off” in virtual team meetings) in some or all of my team members?

If the answer to any of these is “Yes!”, you might be in need of an in-person team gathering.

Learn More About Our “Anti-Burnout” Team Building Workshops

Quick Reads:

Has your company scrapped your “Return to Office” plan? You’re not alone. Many organizations are taking a “let’s see how it goes” approach to returning to formal in-person work…and seeing success.

Read the Article

Virtual Presentation Skills Class

We have officially launched our “Virtual Public Speaking Skills” Online Class!

In this video-based class, you’ll learn techniques to mentally and physically prepare for virtual presentations, engage with virtual and hybrid audiences and enhance your overall ability to deliver compelling ideas in video conferences.

Check out the class

Want a Virtual Workshop or Virtual Coaching for Your Team?

Oak and Reeds offers training on hybrid communication, managing remote teams, interviewer skills, change leadership and more.

All our trainings can be conducted virtually using Zoom or in person using...human beings.

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Hybrid Work on the Horizon?

Hybrid Work on the Horizon?

During a recent workshop, I asked participants "What are three words that come to mind when you think of returning to in-person collaboration?" Here were the results:

(Note: The bigger the word, the more people who thought it)

When you read this infographic, do these thoughts align with your personal transition back to the office? With your team's transition?

In my "Leading Teams Through Change" workshop, I encourage teams to share their thoughts on hybrid work out loud with each other. Creating opportunities to share what's exciting (and worrisome) about a change helps build more resilient and empathetic teams by exposing colleagues to each other's shared emotions and experiences.

Learn More About Our Change Workshops

Quick Reads:

A pair of articles from The Atlantic caught my eye this week:

Workplace cultures that ignore sadness and "enforce positivity" limit people's ability to process change and build authority in authentic ways.

New research from Microsoft begs the question: Do you suffer from a triple hump workday?

Read More on Our Blog

Online Classes for Individuals

Tired of waiting for your next Oak and Reeds group workshop? You're in luck!

We're in the process of building out an online class curriculum for all of our most popular training topics.

These will be self-directed video classes with a mixture of exercises, quizzes, and other interactive elements to keep you practicing and learning in a fun and fast-paced way.

Are you interested in learning more? Please click the button below to sign up to be the first to know when our classes go live!

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Featured Blog Posts

Make Learning Stick with Oak and Reeds

Make Learning Stick with Oak and Reeds

Oak and Reeds now offers whisper courses as a supplement to our live, virtual instructor-led workshops. This new content offers bite-sized learning units (sent via email) to help learners digest content over time. All of these courses are customizable and can be tailored to your organization’s specific learning needs.

What Should Learning Leaders Prioritise in 2021?

What Should Learning Leaders Prioritise in 2021?

The new year signals an opportunity to have those meaningful conversations. As we continue to adapt to a remote-first work setup, how do we make sure our people are equipped to balance productivity with their personal wellbeing?

How do we ensure that 2021 is a year we look back on as one of focused growth and development instead of a chaotic, stress-inducing mess?